Does this sound like you?
“No matter what I do, I can’t get Tinder matches with the girls I want“
You open Tinder yet again. You see a hot, athletic girl and swipe right. It’d be so amazing if it was a match. Now a cute, next door type girl! Swipe. You like this one’s smirk, she looks like good kind of trouble. Another right swipe! So freaking many girls you’d want to meet in your area. But… Your swiping keeps shouting “Hey, I’m here” but you tend to only get matches from girls selling their OnlyFans. Is swiping and waiting really the only thing you can do?
You’ve tried to improve your profile. But everyone just says your pictures look depressing. Low effort. Not gonna stand a chance. Others are getting matches and dates, so what am I doing wrong to get none? What are they doing to doing differently?
You know there are profiles that line up multiple dates every week… you just don’t see how your profile could get that many matches, let alone dates.
“I can’t seem to get a good selfie or good photo of myself for Tinder”
Everyone says you need better photos to improve your profile, so you give it a try. You give your camera to a friend and ask them to take a photo. They ask, what kind? You blank out. A great one. Duh. But what makes a great Tinder photo? The background? A cool activity? You? You search for info. Be attractive. You should be yourself. Candid. Not looking like a tryhard. Not too good looking to be a catfish. All this info just leaves you with more questions on what would be a great Tinder photo.
But, something has to be better than nothing, right? So you get in front of the camera. But, you just feel like a sack of potatoes when in front of the camera. Crumped. Wrinkled. Bulky. Inelegant. Cringeworthy. Yeah, so photogenic.
Maybe, just maybe, you might catch one in a thousand moment where I look artificially good. But that would leave you uncomfortable meeting people due to misrepresenting reality. You fear that you’re wasting their time. After all, if you aren’t getting matches, the problem obviously is that your appearance is not good enough, right? 99% of the time, guys with successful Tinder profiles are handsome, tall, athletic looking, right? Online dating just seems to destroy whatever is left of your confidence in your looks, and to highlight your ugliness.
Those top successful profiles can choose what their dating life looks like… but for an average guy like YOU Tinder just feels like a waste of time.
Imagine you, an average guy, having your calendar fully booked with dates together with hot girls, eager to meet you
If you knew how to get matches with girl you are attracted to, you could simply focus on being your authentic self. And the girls would love to hangout with you, because of who you are.
You could stop worrying about how many matches you get, because you’d know how to get your calendar fully booked with those girls. And they would be eager to meet you.
You stop wondering is “Am I doing something wrong with Tinder?”, because you have hard time picking the absolute best photo out of too many great ones.
You could kiss goodbye to your fears on standing in front of camera, because guys and girls alike mistake you to be a model based on your photos.
You could stop agonize “Am I too ugly for online dating?”, because girls directly tell you “omg you’re so hot 🥵“.
You might even have other guys envying your looks and dating success. They might pester you for “How do you do that?”
It’s true that Tinder can seem like dying of thirst in the desert… but it doesn’t have to.
Evolve yourself into one of top Tinder profiles, with my free Building Tinder Match Magnets guide
When you read my Building Tinder Match Magnets, here’s what you will do:
- Learn how to become an attractive guy that girls turn to check out.
- Then you’ll pick authentic photo ideas from your life. It’s easier than you think, I promise.
- And learn how to photograph that idea in the best possible light, even if you’re a total newbie!
- You’ll then learn to avoid the typical photography mistakes guys make for their Tinder photos.
- Then you’ll select the best of the best from your new photos.
- And convert them to maximize the attention grab from girls swiping.
- You’ll learn how to write an interesting bio to finish off your profile.
- Then you start swiping with a tactic that makes the best use of your new great photos
- And you have messaging templates ready to make texting to your matches efficient and hassle-free. More dates, less texting!
Get Your free, no-bullshit Guide for building an attractive Tinder Profile Straight To your inbox
61 page guide, and actionable email tips on Tinder and dating you can read in 5 minutes, for free.
Here’s a sneak preview of what you’ll get
What’s included
The book is organised into four distinct parts what you get to do and think through before shooting photos, when shooting, what to do with your photos after you’ve done your photoshoot and, finally, how to make the most out of those photos.
The book content is organised as follows (free sample chapter below!):
Part I: Maximize Your Chances Of A Great Photo
- Chapter 1: Plan What To Shoot
- List activities you enjoy
- Check the feasibility of the activities
- From ideas into copy-able inspiration
- What if there are no good inspiration photos?
- My interests are not attractive for Tinder
- What if I don’t have any hobbies at all
- Chapter 2: Maximize Your Attractiveness With Style
- Mindset for attractiveness: Polarizing is good
- Mindset for attractiveness: Think how your clothes work as a whole
- Men’s dating style principles
- Rules of thumb to follow and make style easy
- My minimalist streetwear wardrobe – (Copy this!)
- Chapter 3: 101 For Sharp Body And Hair Looks
- Physique
- Tattoos
- Piercings
- Hair
- Beard
Part II: Taking Great Photos Confidently
- Chapter 4: Steps For Shooting Great Tinder Photos
- Pick a location and a suitable spot at there
- Camera settings to use
- Taking the photos
- Main mistakes when taking Tinder photos
- Take tons of photos, fuck around and find out
- Chapter 5: Posing Like A Model As A Newbie
- Principles for masculine posing
- Pose while doing an activity
Part III: Maximizing Photos Into Great Ones
- Chapter 6: Selecting Best Tinder Photos Out of Hundreds
- Questions you want YES for
- Should I pick the best photo by myself?
- What about friends, family or services like Photofeeler?
- Chapter 7: How To Edit To Maximize The Photo Quality
- Correct white balance (if you shoot with RAW)
- Adjust the overall levels of light
- Drawing the attention in with light and sharpness differences
- Remove small details that would draw the focus away from you
- Crop the photo
- Before and after
Part IV: Putting Great Photos To Work
- Chapter 8: Creating An Interesting Bio
- 4 things in common for best bios
- Writing an attention grabbing bio
- Example bios
- Do I need to use all of these lines? No.
- Chapter 9: Maximizing Your Match Rate
- Principles of maximizing your match rate
- Swiping for maximum number of matches
- “Tinder Platinum is quite expensive”
- What about Boosts / Primetime boosts / Super Boosts?
- Caveat when you shouldn’t pay for Tinder Platinum
- Chapter 10: How To Know What To Message To Girls
- Principles for text conversations
- My example templates – Personalize these to fit your talking style
- “This other texting strategy is way more efficient!”
Sample chapter on what you will get!
Get Your free, no-bullshit Guide for building an attractive Tinder Profile Straight To your inbox
61 page guide, and actionable email tips on Tinder and dating you can read in 5 minutes, for free.
Still here? Yet still not convinced?
If you take away just one thing…
Look, I’m not going to try all that hard to sell you on Building Tinder Match Magnets. It’s free. Take it or leave it!
But I do want to sell you on the mindset that’ll change your life:
Taking action to improve your attractiveness, photos and dating life is one of the most rewarding things you can do. Improving yourself most often is quite simple, but the difficulty comes from the need to do small actions consistently every week, over months or years.
That’s right. There’s no huge psychological secrets. No “one trick to get her to like you”.
None.
You don’t need to be the most extroverted person, to have the most chiseled abs, or even be a decent photographer. Those things are nice to have, don’t get me wrong. But they come after getting started with taking action.
First, you gotta take action, suck at it, be fine that you do suck, and learn to suck less.
Why?
We are hardwired to avoid something that we’re not good at. It makes us feel like a beginner, a fumbling stupid idiot again. But it’s only through sucking that we learn.
That’s why I wrote this book to help you learn faster. To show you that even if you suck, you don’t have to for long.
Do it with me, or without me, it doesn’t matter in the end… as long as you’re willing to take action and get over your greatest enemy blocking you from success, yourself.
Of course, it’s a lot easier to do it with concrete, step-by-step help.
And when you decide you want that… I’m here for you.
Let’s build ourselves into attractive match magnets!
Get Your free, no-bullshit Guide for building an attractive Tinder Profile Straight To your inbox
61 page guide, and actionable email tips on Tinder and dating you can read in 5 minutes, for free.