Korkki

My Own Tinder Profile

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I’ve had good success with the below pictures, so this profile 100% works, and it works well.

I aim to keep this updated whenever I do a major improvement to my dating photos. You should constantly update your online dating profile with better pictures that show off your improved physique, more interesting hobbies, etc. You’ll learn over time what works and what doesn’t. Therefore, don’t let your profile stagnate!

My profile is fairly sexual and I’m direct with my kink, but that does NOT mean you need to be even this direct if you’re nervous or just getting started.

I’m this straight forward in my photos, because I got to a point where I was finding dates but I wasn’t enjoying the sex or the chemistry I had with the girls. I decided to screen with the BDSM themed sexual photo(s), and boy did it work.

I get less matches from being sexual, but the girls that do match with me, are often explicitly interested in BDSM. Since I make it so clear, girls know what they are signing up for – so there’s less hassle, girls never play games with me, and sex is guaranteed if I meet a girl in person.

Bio

My bio continues with the theme of looking for girls into BDSM.

When I was younger, girls hates when I pulled their hair. Funny how some things change.

Cooking and good food are the best drugs.

What I Say

I aim to be as open and honest about what I look for. This helps find girls that are interested in the same, and then dates are chill because they know what I’m looking for and there are no games.

Note: These are translation from Finnish to English.

Me: Hey, you’re hot. I’m looking for something quite specific here.

Her: What is that?

Me: I’m looking for something casual but ongoing. Tho if we click well for long, I don’t mind something more serious either. On that note, do you have experience on being submissive / BDSM, or is it something you’d like to try?

Her: [Answers to the question]

Me: [Answer to what she wrote].

[I pick one based on her answer]

Me: Which aspects of BDSM you’d be particularly interested in trying? How long have you been interested in that? / Which aspects of BDSM particularly interest you? / What kinds of experiences do you have?

Her: [Answers]

Me: [Answer with my own preferences and to what she said]. We should grab a drink face-to-face, get to know each other and see if we click. Toss me your number and I’ll send a message.

Once I have her number, here’s what I usually go with.

Me: Hey hottie, Korkki here.

Her: Hey!

Me: What other cool stuff you do on your free time aside from swiping on Tinder and talking about BDSM?

Her: [Answer]. What about you?

Me: [My own hobbies]. Let’s go grab that drink. How your Tuesday or Wednesday at 17?

Old Profiles

Before June 2022

This was my first attempt with a more sexual profile. There was a lot to improve, but it did already start gathering dates that I actually enjoyed.

Initial Profile

Let’s be honest here. This profile did get me matches, but not that many dates. I knew it wasn’t that good, but it was a start. It doesn’t matter if your profile isn’t the best in the beginning, you can always improve it.

Korkki